siblings

must make sure the kids loves their siblings.... after all blood is thicker than water. 13 is a very crucial age for kids. thats when the would be developing their own character... its the age if pre puberty... i am trying very hard to make sure my eldest son loves his sibling and take some responsibilities looking after the young ones.. and not to just be indulge in his own needs. he must be an inspiration to his siblings... and the young ones must have respect and love for the eldest.... else everything including the whole family structure will be lost....